Am in Love With Two Men, What to Do?

photo by Dennis Skley

Falling in love with two men sounds immature. It is likely that you are emotionally immature and what you feel for either of both men might not actually be love but infatuation or crush.

You need to know someone well before you can be sure of your feelings for that person. At this stage, you are not yet sure of your feelings, which means

anything can happen. So, you may well fall out of love the same way you fell in love.

It seems that you might be emotionally weak or insecure, and your weak, insecure feelings maybe leading your astray. So why don’t you work fixing those issues before go into a relationship or commit yourself to any man?

The moment you realize there are certain qualities which you seek in a man as a life partner, then you would have taken the first step towards finding the perfect person for yourself.